Thomas Joseph, our second born son, was born at 1:12 pm on 6/9/12. He weighed 1 pound 1.5 ounces and was born alive. When they placed him on my chest I could see his little chest moving up and down and slight movements from his arms and legs. I don't know exactly how long Tommy lived for, but whatever it was it wasn't enough. I didn't have long to be with just him because Baby C was ready to come out, but I was able to hold him, kiss him, and tell him I love him.
Thomas means twin, and is a name we considered right from the beginning. I love the nickname Tommy and for years thought of naming my son Tommy after my little brother who was born too early, back in 1991. I know that would have meant a lot to my mom, and it pains me to know that I couldn't give her a Tommy to hold and spoil.
Tommy was such a handsome baby, with such a perfectly round head. I loved the way he pouted his lips and I could have kissed those precious little cheeks all day. I imagine him being a mommy's boy, one who wants to cuddle at night and have stories read to him when he's little, but is the favorite of all the girls in high school.
Tommy shares his middle name with his older brother and his daddy. I can clearly see the 3 of them going to Home Depot together and working around the house. Michael would have taught his two sons everything he knew, some of which probably wouldn't have made mommy too happy!
What a sweet name for a sweet boy! Although your time was cut short ...you had a sweet moment with him that will last a lifetime Xoxo Tara
ReplyDeleteSo sweet to name him after your brother.
ReplyDeleteThank you for giving us some insights to your children. I am so sorry you had such little time with all of them. I love you both, my thoughts are with you! How did you pick MaryElizabeth's name? ~Much love~ Erica
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